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How to ask for a referral (without it being awkward)

By the Jobworthy team. Updated . 6 min read

Referred candidates are hired at many times the rate of people who apply cold. Hiring-data summaries put it at roughly 7 to 11 times more likely, depending on the company and the study (Noon, StaffingHub). No CV tweak comes close.

The reason is simple: a referral moves you from a pile of hundreds to a short list someone has vouched for. Most employers also pay referral bonuses, so you're often doing the referrer a favour too.

Who to ask

  • People you've worked with, even years ago. They can speak to your work.
  • Friends and alumni at the company, even in other teams. They can pass your CV to the right person.
  • A second-degree contact, via someone who knows you both. Ask the mutual contact for an introduction first.
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What to send

Make it easy to say yes. The best requests are short, specific and give the person everything they need to act.

  • The exact role and link.
  • One or two lines on why you fit, with a real result.
  • An offer to send your CV and a short blurb they can forward.
  • An easy out: "No worries at all if it's not a good fit."

A message you can adapt

"Hi Sam, hope you're well! I saw Northstar is hiring a Senior Product Analyst on the Checkout team. At Acme I ran 25 checkout A/B tests, including one that lifted conversion 3.2%, so it looks like a strong match. Would you be open to referring me? I can send my CV and a two-line blurb to make it easy. No worries at all if it's not a good fit."

Mistakes to avoid

  • Asking a stranger for a referral in your first message. Ask for ten minutes of advice instead.
  • Sending a generic CV. Tailor it to the role first.
  • Following up more than once. One gentle nudge after a week is enough.
  • Forgetting to thank them, whatever happens.

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